God has a plan for you before creating you (Psalm139:16). Do you know that God doesn’t make mistakes and doesn’t do anything accidentally? God conceived you in His mind before you were conceived by your parents. He chose everything about you deliberately; colour, race, skin and every other feature you have, and He also gave you a unique personality.
My frame was not hidden from thee,
when I was being made in secret,
intricately wrought in the depths of the earth.
Some children are unplanned by their parents but all are planned by God. You are who you are for a reason. You were created for a purpose. God created you wonderfully, fearfully and intentionally. Can you just take a moment and thank God for making you who you are? You are valuable to God and He loves you. Focus on God and you will see His good plans and purposes for your life unfold. You are not an accident.